Monday, April 10, 2017

Just because I'm pregnant, doesn't mean I'm an invalid

I know some of my posts have become rants lately.  I apologize.

The title of this post says it all.  I may be pregnant, but it doesn't mean that I am unable to do stuff.  If I was, I'd ask for help or say something.  But when I want to do something myself, I will do that said thing.  When I was in second grade, I broke my arm falling off the monkey bars. I got up on my own, and walked over to the teacher on duty and said, "I think I broke my arm," as I held up my clearly bent wrist.  I wished so much I have that ability to do that in more cases, but I can't.  Another time, I was getting blood work done to see if I was iron-efficient.  They did the little finger prick, but when the blood wasn't flowing, the nurse asked to see if I could help by pressing on my finger.  As I did, I realized I was going to throw up, and I ran out of the room.  I know my limits.  

Guys, I'm not saying I want to work out in rice fields every day and eventually go into labor as I'm working out in the fields like O-Lan from the book The Good Earth, but I don't want to be like the woman from the short story The Yellow Wallpaper (yes, I know that this story takes place AFTER she gives birth, but same point), and not be able to lift a damned finger.  

Today while seven months pregnant, I moved several pieces of furniture in my son's room (dresser, book case, and chair).  I've asked for help in moving other pieces of furniture in his room because I know I can't do it.




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